Be independent!
Everybody in this life makes his/her priority in the front of his/her eyes, working to achieve it, and that's make senesce and I shame on that at all. There are numerous and multiple personality trait, different from one to another, and that's normal variation between people. Some certain personalities really have to be changed, since they make a lot of troubles for themselves and the friends around him/her. The good news about this, is these 'personalities trait' could be changed if the person makes real effort to change to better personality. Being independent makes your life worth living, your life will be more organized, more target-oriented and you will depend on yourself. This per se dose not mean that you have be mean, selfish or not amicable!, but instead it will make you more friendly, because a lot of people got enamored with the person who's 'others-independent'. It's a matter of some skills you have to mater them to be ...